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Deep inside we all have the answers but we allow the cacophony of the wishful-thinking voice of Id rather than Ego, steer us clear of the proper path to tread. As we do that of the devils whisper...and at times respond in kind, only further perpetuating our inner struggles, delaying healing, and avoiding what we need rather than misguidedly & hence erroneously want...

You can live in the moment, or plan the foundations of a strong enduring tomorrow.

This can not occur in dreams, it requires waking.

Should your consequent days to follow be marked by deprivation, know that when one takes more than was entitled, even in the then face of abundance shall the soul know insatiable unrest.

For that is a primordial universal and unwritten law known to spirit much before it related itself to the physicality's of His tangible creation.

And thus the smoke and mirrors of your illusions will give way to the spectacle that your performance lacks and that which glitters will prove to be fools-gold and trifle, for there is no wealth or value in that which does not sustain.

It is then that the merits of my strife will, silently and unbeknownst, be proclaimed and the misgivings of a heart will recognize erroneous disdain.

So mote it be.

It is "a day of peculiar splendor [...] when leaf and flower and bird and sun-lit stone and shadow seem all proclaim the glory of God."

Et in Arcadia ego. Spring at long last has arrived. The earth is teeming with budding greenery that's pushed its way up through frosted soil to greet Apollo.

On this day, on a sun-drenched span of weathered wooden planks of decking, I took my coffee and fell in love with Gaia once again; as I often do.

Here, under the embrace of Terra Mater's spell, I reflected on such things as those which haunt a man of prime who has yet endowed the world with the full manifestations of his dreams and fantasizes his epitaph; someday; hopefully not near; a long one.

So much to do, so little done, and time, uncaring, continues at it's steady pace. The seasons come and go like temperamental waters; having the great might to permanently etch and carve out canyons in the soul or in gentle effortless cunning slip past the fingers of a cupped hand that vainly attempts to capture them much longer than is entitled.

Nothing but the tracks of his failed attempt at lowliness remain...

I am sitting at the computer enjoying a few last minute laughs with friends over the internet before heading out to work. The slacks that I just finished ironing are still warm on to the legs, a sharp contrast to the cold surge I felt on the back of my neck which made tiny hairs prickle.

I stare back at the backyard door and fixed my gaze on its closed window blinds which some inner gut sense beckoned for me to immediately go and look out of. I thought of all the recent robberies which have been occurring and of the poor girl who a few days ago walked in on a burglar half way through her window and was almost the victim of theft or worst yet, a violent crime.

Lo and behold, I look out and I see some lowlife scum creeping, like the snake he is, down my wooden post and on to my yard.

I do not know how to explain the surge of adrenaline and outrage that came over me at the idea of someone just having crossed the line and having entered my territory and I was instantly sure that I was about to defend it tooth and nail with the most primal of impulses. Scientist call it the Fright or Flight. For our purposes, let's call it gangster ghetto ass whooping time the day.

I ran, grabbed my hunting buck knife and clipped it to the back of my belt and then equipped myself with the 4 ½ foot iron bar I use for exercising at home. I quietly removed the chain lock off the door, quietly unlocked, opened it and was disappointed in consequential noise that followed alerting the idiot that he was not alone to his own devices.

He dashed and I after him. He was a grimy stout man of Hispanic decent with a back I would later judge too wide for his stature and surprising agility. He wore clothes that looked unkempt and required washing and a fitted black or blue baseball hat, black boots and gloves.

As he worked his way up that wooden pole with the dexterity akin to that of a wild animal, I in all of my adrenaline ridden own animalistic glory somehow swung that 30-40lbs iron bar across the wide of his back, which created a popping cracking sound and made him yelp loudly in pain and lose footing.

By the time I was able to regain momentum and swing again He was nearly over my fence but I nonetheless got him one last time on the shoulder which ricocheted hard unto his moral less head causing him to fall hard on the opposite side.

It all happened so fast! I was shaking! Still cursing and saying words I would try and later attempt to recall but not be able to remember.

I called the cops who arrived thirty minutes later. As a few days ago, their demeanor was one of absolute uncaring and seemed bothered to have been called again. They recommended that I "next time" go and file a report at the precinct rather than waste their time when "no crime had yet been committed" and no trespasser was present.

WTF! Really? What a way to put my tax dollars to work! The fat one in the driver's seat reeked of cigarettes and had several large rolls of fat on his mid section representative of all the doughnuts his long life, chasing sugary confections and coffee, had seen.

They however alerted the local hospitals in the event that an individual fitting my description should go in with injuries to the back, ribs or head.

Unfortunately, I never received a call back from them but I guarantee that if the thief is not curdled up dead by a garbage can due to a concussion he is surly dealing with broken ribs, possibly a punctured lung which might attribute the popping sound I heard when I first struck him, a whole new respect for my property line, and hopefully considering a new career path.

Have I mentioned how much I LOVE MY NEW JOB? I am part of a great diverse team of super bright individuals, a world renown organization and university, doing feelgood work that will benefit generations to come, blessed with three spectacular office locations, and the promise of being part of the initiative to develop an HIV vaccine that will someday bring an end the epidemic.

Today was a great day! I had a skip to my step (thank you ;-). Looked sharp. A lot got accomplished. Got paid. Ate well, except for 13 Pepridge Farm cookies. Received accolades by my Department Head in front of the Board. Netflix was waiting for me in the mailbox. Now for a hot shower, PJs, a flick, and some cereal.

Another attempted theft... So the first night was on Jan 22. I woke up and found my lounge chairs positioned to climb back out of my backyard. Two neighbor's homes have since then been recently broken into. Yesterday, the perp again made it as far as my window but my ghetto window wedge thwarted his interest. My upstairs neighbor found him half way through her window as she came naked out of the bathroom...

Bring your copy of Infinite Jest to [a bar]. Order a scotch and soda and sip it slowly. When a man approaches to ask about the "size" of your "book", ignore him.

Keep reading.

When a second man offers to buy you a drink, politely decline [and] go back to your book.

When a third man [...] asks what you think about the postmodern use of footnotes, and if Junot Díaz used the conceit as effectively as DFW, use a napkin as a bookmark, invite him out for falafel in the park, and make plans to watch Fellini as soon as possible.

How to steps:

1-3. Lose extra baggage, self glorified BF, and all self respect.

(This might take a while especially in accordance to NYC housing laws but the no-trans-fat one helps)

4. Grab your camera and take a sleazy picture of yourself.

5. Resize said picture, crop it just enough to activate the imagination, and post it on Facebook.

(Cutting and pasting Brad Pitt's torso to yours, although cunning is not allowed)

6. Wait.

7. Nonchalantly, thank the first few comments on your FB thread, sound humble even though by posted-implication you are not.

8. Wait.

9. Disregard the first wave of complementary emails, as this is the thirst-patrol, testing the waters.

10. Once an email written in perfect Ebonics prose with either or a combination of any of the following terms is received, you know you have a winner:

• Yo! What's good? (waz gud, what the dealy, wat up, etc. etc)


• Damn. Boo!


• I seended you before but...


• Yo son, holla at ya boy.


• My digits 212-555-5555


• Your stats?


• You get down?


• U on the DL? (He does not mean a game of limbo, or the Southern Hemisphere)

11. Stop here and refer to tomorrows how-to or repeat steps 1-10 until therapy, penicillin or antibiotics are required.

Disclaimer: Not limited to these terms, Ebonics dialects may be different depending on public housing facility, state, or generation, Ebonics are subject to change, immigrant Ebonics are even trickier, third-world Ebonics are also included, Ebonics are not necessarily indicative of economical status or educational level just plain old stupidity or a misguided machista homoerotic philia which subjectifies the lower class and minimizes them to objects of desire.

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I left the house this morning at 10:20am in order to catch the Flushing bound bus for my 11:30am appointment with the account. I was looking forward to seeing her because God only knows how much that tax rebate was going to help in terms of getting me back on my feet.

Little did I know that the NYC Q66 bus was in fact bound for Asian Hell.

I got to the accountants office at exactly 11:20am and found myself surrounded by a stampede of low income families clawing and fighting their way to the counter to be attended by the little waif that sat opposite us sporting a fake ass smile and glasses that I would at some later point imagine getting slapped of her face by a Kung-Fu savvy customer who shared my sentiments.

This of all days would have been a day in which the universe offered me an opportunity to practice patience but I think that my inner Buddha was on vacation somewhere in Maui.

Let's begin by the fact that once I finally made it to the counter and explained that I had an 11:30 appointment, my paperwork was nowhere to be found. The waif and her husky side kick, with the stereotypical new generation Asian flip haircut, then proceeded to explain that they would be unable to help me unless I was able to conjure up my appointment slip. I directed their lazy asses to the appointment book in front of them and pointed out my name. This was not well received because it now required them to actually search for my file amongst the several hundreds which were jammed packed into cardboard boxes.

At last, they found it and Husky said: "I found, you one day late", and pointed to the erroneous appointment date written on my file. I again pointed to the appointment book and replied: No, your one day wrong. He didn't respond and little miss chopstick told me to sit down that it would be an hour.

Really? An hour wait for my 10min-ago appointment? Sure, I thought no sweat.

The tax return will be worth it.

Two and a half hours later, I was starting to lose my composure and confound public space was no where for me to be.

Besides, I was apparently going no where fast and the tummy wanted something yummy.

I should have kept my hungry ass on that chair.

Burger King wanted an extra 69 cents for a Whopper Jr. No thank you. I don't eat that shit anyway and they cost a buck everywhere else. I crossed the street and went to Joes Burgers which was always an economic favorite, but they have minimized portions and quadrupled prices since my last visit. No thank you.

I went into Duane Reade and waited behind every Chinese individual with a cough and no sense to cover their mouth in a 10 mile radius. When I get to the counter, I learn that they offer no cash back. ARGH!

I then walk down to my bank and find a line of approximately 9 people waiting in front of me for one of three ATMs all of which are occupied with technologically challenged individuals. There's a family of Mexicans discussing finances in front of their teller for 6 minutes rather then stepping aside and figuring it out. At last, their machine spit out a single crisp 20 dollar bill.

The guy behind me with the brat of a son was by far my favorite. He kept leaning up on me as if pushing me forward would help speed the ordeal. His kid was equally annoying and was suckling on red candied gluten balls on a stick which he was liable to take his eye with at any moment. Dad kept yelling at him and with his shoulder pushing me forward. When the guy before me got his turn, the father in a pissy loud voice gestured in front of me and said, MOVE!

Holy Mother of Mercy! I wanted to elbow his teeth in. I gave him the kind of look that would have vaporized him had I had laser beam eyeball super powers. He caught the sign of rage and quickly added an insincere, "please".

At last I got a twenty and went to the Chinese bakery for some sweet pork buns. I was the only customer there but it took me ten minutes to get my pork bun because the lady and the man behind the counter where having some kind of marital or indentured servant-master argument. In between riffs she would ask me again for my order. The third time was a charm, until I pulled out the twenty and she developed an attitude.

The cost of the buns were $2.25, she returned $7.75. I waited. She then gave me a head shake that I figured meant, "you got what you wanted, now go."

"You owe ten more dollars", I explained. She sucked her teeth, scrunched her face, pulled a small wad of bills from her bra, making her cup size go from B to A flat minus, and gave me two fives which I was very hesitant to take.

On to Dunkin Doughnuts next door which, by the way, is the smallest one in all the five boroughs?

There was a line of ten people waiting for their cup-of-joe as the obese family in front ordered everything in sight, plus 4 egg white flatbreads because (get this) the others were too fattening. Then habibi steps out with the smelliest of bacteria infested mops and starts mopping. There apparently is an unwritten rule, which states that one must mop in a 4x4 space when there are these many customers in line.

My blood pressure was now much higher then before and all I can think on is the irony of being surround by business establishments called Happy this and Joy and Luck that and everything is adorned in red because culturally it's a lucky color.

What color is hellfire again?

I get back to the accountants and am greeted by the same miserable faces, and the staff's smiles which are faker then the designer goods draping them. Everyone by me is apparently wearing the newest perfume, Eau de Deep-fried. Except for the Indian women next to me which had the slight scent of curry which was welcoming compared to the guy next to me with a passion for incessantly yawning with his trap wide open, whose breath smelled of gingivitis and yak poo.

The guy in front of me coughed up a mixture of green phlegm and brown stuff and decided the potted plant in the office would benefit from his bodily toxins.

I was blessed to see it slime its way down the trunk of the plant at the slowest of glacier paces.

By the way folks, MSG is a universal ADD trigger for children. Do not feed it to them. EVER! Unless you want to get back at your parents in law and are dropping them off.

It is now three hours past my scheduled appointment time and I felt like the unfortunate red-ear sliders lining the shop windows outside, frantically scratching at their made in Hong Kong plastic prisons to no avail, trapped in an incessant desperate desire for escape.

I wanted to be anywhere but here!

Getting crucified in the outskirts of San Antonio was a welcoming thought. ; )

I don't know how many Pater Nosters & Ave Marias I recited but Jesus was not answering calls.

I got up, walked up to the counter waif and opened my eyes very wide at her. She said, "Yes can I help you." I said, "yeah, I been waiting 3 hours for that one hour wait you mentioned."

She replied, "Oh so sorry, she working on it now".

Finally after 3.5 hours, I get to sit with the accountant.

I handed her an $80 check for her services and learn that I owe, my adoptive uncle, Sam, $600.00.

:sigh: